Many miss Mass for one innocuous reason or another... but not this young lady:
A Umatilla teenager said she was forced to choose between her Catholic faith and serving as a delegate to Florida Girls State, a government-in-action leadership program for teen girls.
"I was shocked. This is basically discrimination," said Margeaux (Mar-go) Graham, 16, a junior at Umatilla High School, who was told that she would not be allowed to attend Sunday Mass while Girls State is hosted June 15-23 at Florida State University in Tallahassee, even though a Catholic cathedral is across the street from FSU.
Graham's mother, Mary, offered to make the trip to escort her daughter to church.
"The girls are not allowed to leave our program for any reason," said Robin Briere, department secretary-treasurer of the American Legion Auxiliary, who noted it would be an insurance liability to allow any of the 300 delegates to leave the premises.
Briere said a non-denominational Sunday service is provided for the delegates.
As a faithful Catholic, Graham said it would be a mortal sin for her not to attend Mass, as it's her religious and moral obligation to attend Mass every single Sunday.
"Missing Mass is not an option," added Jackie Smart, director of religious education at St. Mary of the Lakes Catholic Church in Eustis, where Graham is a parishioner.
"If you're Catholic, you're obliged to gather with your fellow Catholics on Sundays to celebrate Mass and it's not something that we can choose not to participate in, if you're an active Catholic," Smart said. "If you really believe what our faith teaches, there would be no way to keep you from Mass and that's the way Margeaux feels...
"Good for Margeaux for not being afraid to stand up for her faith. There is so much pressure on these young men and women nowadays that it's not cool to embrace your faith, and I think that it's really great that Margeaux is willing to stand up for that. ...She is just a very determined young lady. She has a very strong grasps of her faith and what it means to be a Catholic."
A friend of the Graham family, Carl Ludecke, commander of American Legion Post 21 in Umatilla, called Robin Briere at the state American Legion Auxiliary and proposed the idea of allowing a priest or university chaplain to come to Girls State to celebrate Mass for the Catholic delegates.
"I thought, why not bring in somebody in at the same time as they were doing a service in another room?, Ludecke said, recalling the idea was immediately rejected.
"I was absolutely flabbergasted. I was just trying to get this resolved so everybody could be happy," he said. "We had a screaming match on the telephone and I didn't get anywhere, because I really don't have any jurisdiction to do it."
Briere said this is the first time in her 19 years on staff with Girls State, a privately-funded program, that religion has become an issue.
"We are a non-denominational program and intentionally keep religion out of our program out of respect for the 300 girls that come from many different faiths," she said. "We set aside time on Sunday morning, from our very busy schedule, to allow each girl to honor her faith silently and the girls collectively put a program together to honor all faiths."
The Sunday service is written and executed by the delegates, she said, adding it's something that they enjoy doing.
"The majority of our schools in Girls State are Catholic schools that support our program," Briere said. "And we've never at one time had a Catholic school demand that we have a priest come into our program to celebrate Mass during Girls State."
"I'm just amazed at the uproar over this," added Briere, who also is Catholic by faith. "It's not like she's forced to go to this program and we're denying her religious rights. ... What has surprised me the most, through all of this, was having the Umatilla American Legion commander call and demand that we had to do it."
Briere said she does not feel less of a Catholic when she misses Mass while being involved in leading Girls State.
"I'm doing something good to help our youths," she said of the non-partisan, non-political, non-sectarian program that strives to teach and inculcate in the young women a love of God and country.
And so there you have it. Ms. Briere can put herself along Nancy Pelosi, Kathleen Sebelius and other cultural Catholics who deny basic tenets of the faith while "not feeling less of a Catholic".
Sad.
The requirement to attend Mass on Sunday and other holy days of obligation, rooted in the Third Commandment and codified in Church law (cf. Code of Canon Law, canons 1246-48) is a serious obligation for all Catholics. A Catholic who (a) is able to attend Sunday Mass (i.e., who is not impeded by illness, lack of transportation, etc.), (b) knows the seriousness of this requirement, and (c) nonetheless freely chooses to miss Mass, thereby commits a mortal sin (cf. Catechism, no. 2181).
From the Catechism:
The Sunday obligation
2180 The precept of the Church specifies the law of the Lord more precisely: "On Sundays and other holy days of obligation the faithful are bound to participate in the Mass."117 "The precept of participating in the Mass is satisfied by assistance at a Mass which is celebrated anywhere in a Catholic rite either on the holy day or on the evening of the preceding day."118
2181 The Sunday Eucharist is the foundation and confirmation of all Christian practice. For this reason the faithful are obliged to participate in the Eucharist on days of obligation, unless excused for a serious reason (for example, illness, the care of infants) or dispensed by their own pastor.119 Those who deliberately fail in this obligation commit a grave sin.
2182 Participation in the communal celebration of the Sunday Eucharist is a testimony of belonging and of being faithful to Christ and to his Church. The faithful give witness by this to their communion in faith and charity. Together they testify to God's holiness and their hope of salvation. They strengthen one another under the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
2183 "If because of lack of a sacred minister or for other grave cause participation in the celebration of the Eucharist is impossible, it is specially recommended that the faithful take part in the Liturgy of the Word if it is celebrated in the parish church or in another sacred place according to the prescriptions of the diocesan bishop, or engage in prayer for an appropriate amount of time personally or in a family or, as occasion offers, in groups of families."120
God bless Margeaux Graham and the example she's setting. Might she inspire others to take a deeper step.
I can tell you without blinking an eye that attending Mass weekly has become something I want to do, something I can no longer miss, not because Catholicism demands it but because my soul longs for it.
I suspect it's the same for this young lady. I wish it would be the same for others.
Might more souls long for Christ in the Eucharist.
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